No Win Situation

I sometimes think us women ought to cut men some slack. I heard myself complaining to Kay this morning that my date last night was all over me - which I quite enjoyed in the moment - but that he must not have too much respect for me if he was so aggressive. Juxtapose that with my recent complaint about J being too sweet and not sexy enough. Sigh. I suppose it really is a challenge for men to understand what women want when we hardly seem to know ourselves.